Next on Dr. Fil : Are my Goals too Big?

Dear Dr. Fil,

I have always had big dreams. I want to invest in Real Estate, but also do YouTube. I want to start my own business but I don’t really have any ideas or background. I am too young to just give up on life, but I feel too old to start anything worthwhile. I have a feeling that I want to be more than I currently am, that there’s a version of myself out there that can do really cool, impressive things. But most days, I have no clue which direction to follow. I feel empty sticking to this life plan but everyone around me calls me crazy when I share my goals of owning my own home with a backyard where I can walk around naked, or buy a sail boat just for the summer. Drive a nice car…, idk.

But my family says that’s propaganda. That big goals and nice things aren’t for people like me. It’s a trap to keep suckers like me brainwashed.

I feel guilty just thinking about wanting more when all my friends and family are struggling to go by day by day. I know I need to get my head out of the clouds, I know I can’t pay my bills with dreams or eat delusions.

Is my circle right? Should I just be realistic? Are certain things not accessible to certain people? Can I really make it in Real Estate and beyond? Am I deluding myself?

Are my goals too big?

Thank you,

Restless in Rochester

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Dear Restless in Rochester,

Your Goals may be too Big. For Rochester. And most definitely for your inner circle.

You do not have to change your address or family in order to achieve big things, but the narratives you listen to in a loop act like spells. Buyer Beware.

There are no barriers for what you can achieve except the ones you impose on yourself. Dreaming BIG is a Basic Survival Skill in 2025.

The first thing I want to touch base on is the Science of Dreams and Goal Setting:

• Dreams follow a Pipeline and shrink in each phase. Dream - Ideation-Experimentation-Iteration-Repetition-Systematization-Realization. Each Phase distills the dream and shrinks it in the process: Big Accomplishments require Monumental Size Dreams;

• To bring something from the realm of the IMPOSSIBLE to POSSIBLE to PROBABLE to INEVITABLE you will have to undergo a process of purification: letting go of the superfluous to keep only the Essential. That is produced by HEAT, which make the particles of the Dream a reality. HEAT can be formed from Solitude and Silence, Resistance, Retaliation, Anger and Hate. People will doubt you. Thats not a bug: it’s a feature. Acceleration and Achievement are contingent on Heat; (for more on how thermodynamics influence goal setting follow me on Ig)

• The Bigger you Dream, the higher the temperature you produce. If you want things outside of your reach: prepare to piss people OFF. It’s Energy Work not an opinion;

• The Restlessness you feel is a by-product of inner activity with no outer expression. This can cause neurosis, mental disorders and even cancer. Act on any impulse or desire to grow or achieve. Small actions compounds growth. No action compounds dis-ease. You’re restless because you’re waiting for permission; Energy needs to be understood and properly channeled otherwise tripping, panel breaking and other problems may arise. You need to create appropriate channels and ground your charge. We are Energy in Mass. That is it.

• The Goal setting process is not all rational. Its the Unconscious turned subconscious, turned conscious. You only need reason in goal setting to repeat outcomes and teach outcomes aka systems; So being irrational is part of the formula;

• Goal Setting and the Science of Dreams is not out of reach to anyone. It’s a skill. The more you learn, the more layers and possibilities are opened. It is a result of your Courage - not money, not status, not luck. COURAGE. 

Reality is illusive. It changes when we do. So instead of searching for it, decide it. And then don’t waiver.

I have encountered many people who also told me that my goals weren’t for me. I wasn’t capable enough, pretty enough, American enough, whatever enough. It only matters if you believe in it. I don’t.

And as a note of appreciation for your letter I will share some of my Current Professional Goals:

• Become the First Solo Self-Made Trillionaire;

• Be the First Realtor Selling in Space;

• Co-Author “The Billionaire Real Estate Agent” w/ Gary Keller;

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• Become the Most famous Portuguese Woman in the World;

• Buy a House in Space;

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If people AREN’T laughing at your Dreams, they’re chores. Let them Laugh. Let them Spit. Let them Point Fingers. Let them Nod. Let them Disapprove.

Realistic, common sense, follow the herd type attitude is dangerous in 2025. Human survival depends on our ability to Dream Bigger and Better. To write better endings for our stories. Its never too late to start. You know the answer.

Dr. Fill

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